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Activities - What do they like to do with their s/o? How do they spend their free time with them?
Mostly role playing and games, but honestly, just a lot of chatting-- he just loves any of the quality time he gets to spend with you
Beauty - What do they admire about their s/o? What do they think is beautiful about them?
He adores their loving patience, he loves how encouraging they can be to him, he loves that they feel like a safe space where he can just be a peace-- finally, he gets to exhale
Comfort - How would they help their s/o when they feel down/have a panic attack etc.?
Be there for them, hold them, get them whatever they need that he's able to get-- low key high key they're his world, and he feels it when they are shaken
Dreams - How do they picture their future with their s/o?
Similar to how it is now honestly, both of them going out and living their lives, chasing their dreams and passions, then coming home to the warmth of their love and the safety of each other's arms
Equal - Are they the dominant one in the relationship, or rather passive?
HMMM honestly switch, in both sexual and non-sexual settings. Sometimes he takes the lead, sometimes he just likes to follow-- he'll happily do both as long as he gets to do them with you
Fight - Would they be easy to forgive their s/o? How are they fighting?
I think it depends on how hurt his feelings are, and how deep he feels the betrayal, but honestly he's pretty quick to forgive-- he gets lonely without you and he misses you far too quickly
Low key that 'why are they sitting with their backs to each other?' 'they're fighting' 'then why are they holding hands?' 'they miss each other when they fight'
low key high key though, he can get pretty emotional pretty quickly in a fight-- he has a tendency to fly off the handle and while he doesn't always blame you, he might take it out on you a little in the moment
he always comes to regret it, but in the moment he just kinda lashes out...
Gratitude - How grateful are they in general? Are they aware of what their s/o is doing for them?
With his s/o?? EXTREMELY, he's honestly just grateful they exist and choose him.
With the rest of the world though-- he has a tendency to feel like the world is against him, even when it's not
what can I say, he's a lil emo boy
Honesty - Do they have secrets they hide from their s/o? Or do they share everything?
He may a few embarrassing secrets or even some fantasies he's a little too shy to share, but you will get them out of him eventually
everything important though he's pretty forth coming with (at least after a point)
Inspiration - Did their s/o change them somehow, or the other way around? Like trying out new things or helped them overcome personal problems?
Honestly you kind of helped him get his life back. Knowing he has someone who is a safe space for him to return to, he put himself out there more! He made new friends, found new hobbies-- he still has some hang ups about some of the stuff from his past, but they aren't stopping him anymore like they used to
Jealousy - Do they get jealous easily? How do they deal with it?
Oh, he can honestly get pretty jealous. He's usually pretty chill, he knows you two are together forever so it's not a big deal, but sometimes it seems like someone else doesn't fully understand that you're extremely taken and are staying that way, and he might step in.
It's usually in some petty or childish way-- usually putting his arm around you/draping himself on you around them or giving you extra kisses when they're there (all while glaring daggers)
He will escalate to verbally telling them to back off, but only if they push it
Kiss - Are they a good kisser? What was the first kiss like?
Eh-- he's still learning low key... but he's very eager to learn, and even more eager for you to teach him!
And his first kiss was, somewhat predictably, awkward. He still thinks back on it fondly though...
Love Confession - How would they confess to their s/o?
Mix tapes that spell out stuff with the first letter of each song, secret admirer notes/messages/letters, beating around the bush conversations where it's so obvious he's asking if you like him like that but he's not just out right asking
Eventually you probably have to be the one to confess low key
Marriage - Do they want to get married? How do they propose? What would the marriage be like?
He low key always thought he wouldn't, but lately...
he hasn't thought about it much, but honestly he'd kinda tailor his proposal to you
the marriage would be the same as dating except now THAT'S MY WIFE/HUSBAND/SPOUSE! *John Mulaney Voice*
Also the wedding--- it'd either be very edgy or a court house wedding
Nicknames - What do they call their s/o?
He will call you his Penumbra on his death bed, you are his Penumbra forever
On Cloud Nine - What are they like when they are in love? Is it obvious for others? How do they express their feelings?
OH he thinks he's being SOOOOOO low key, but high key-- everyone can tell. He stares a lot, pays more attention to you, is always looking at you or talking about you-- it's very obvi that he's basically following you around like a puppy at this point
and he expresses it in little ways like making sure you're good/included or just generally giving you extra/his undivided attention
PDA - Are they upfront about their relationship? Do they brag with their s/o in front of others? Or are they rather shy to kiss etc. when others are watching?
Honestly he's kinda both?? He lets all know that he's your BOYFRIEND, and he will repeat that fact over and over and over again while very clearly holding your hand at all times
but if you try and give him one too many kisses, or get too snuggly or cuddly with him in front of others, he'll usually get embarrassed
He doesn't stop you-- but he is shy and blushing and hiding a bit in his hair (but like... also maybe don't stop...??)
Quirk - Some random ability they have that's beneficial in a relationship.
He can make a room dark with a wave of his hand-- you never have to get up to turn the lights off again!
Romance - How romantic are they? What would they do to make their s/o happy? Cliché or rather creative?
He's very romantic but in a somewhat unconventional way--
There's sometimes flowers and stuff, but mostly it's grandiose declarations of love and tending to your needs
also poetry, but maybe don't tell the other's about the poetry... for your eyes only...
Support - Are they helping their s/o achieve their goals? Do they believe in them?
In small ways yeah-- I don't know many ways he can be supportive other than just being there for them in their day to day, but he is always there for you in your day to day, even if you're just kind of existing for this bit of time
Thrill - Do they need to try out new things to spice out your relationship? Or do they prefer a certain routine?
Mostly routine, but honestly a random act of romanticism is weirdly part of the routine?? like-- he'll be like 'I have not declared my love for them in manor be fitting the depth of my affections in a bit-- I should take their hand and soliloquize to them for an hour when they get home!'
Understanding - How good do they know their partner? Are they empathetic?
He strives to know their partner like he knows his own SOUL
and he's EXTREMELY empathetic! ...to them at least...
Value - How important is the relationship to them? What is it’s worth in comparison to other things in their life?
My thought to the first question was IT IS MORE IMPORTANT TO HIM THAN HIS LIFE, HE WOULD DIE FOR HIS S/O!
To the second question though-- I think it depends on what he's compromising. If it feels like it's something that's too much a part of him-- it's a coin flip as to whether he'd do it dutifully for a while before it becomes too much, or if he'd just refuse out right and start to question if you truly love who he is and/or if you love him as deeply as he loves you
Wild Card - A random Fluff Headcanon.
Gets so so so so SO snuggly when he's sleepy. Just clings to you and snuggles in, burying his face in whatever nook or cranny of you he can fit his face in, cling cuddling you like you're his teddy bear
XOXO - Are they very affectionate? Do they love to kiss and cuddle?
As stated above-- YES! Though usually that's just in private. In public he's a little less likely to melt against you and turn into a poofy little snuggle bug
In private though??
More kisses, more cuddles, more hugs, more love, more affection, HE WANTS TO DROWN IN IT!! MORE!!!!!!!!
Yearning - How will they cope when they're missing their partner?
Eh, pretty poorly. He's mostly just pouting and dreamy sighs, and sad sighs and talking about them or looking at pictures of them or checking his messages again or looking off into the distance wondering if he'll survive until he gets to see you again
He's very dramatic honestly
Zeal - Are they willing to go to great lengths for the relationship? If so, what kind of?
He's pretty willing to go to almost any length for you other than one that would fully compromise himself or his personhood
He has a very strong sense of self and while he's aware others don't always like or get who he is, he's not changing himself for anyone
There's a great many thing he will change and compromise if you are suggesting it out of genuine want for him to better himself and his life
but if he feels like you're only suggesting it cause you want to change who he is-- I won't lie, he'll feel a little heart broken, and a lot betrayed